EMILY M., 15, GEORGETOWN, MA

Tell us about your family:
I live with my two lesbian mothers, Cathy and Nancy.  My biological mother, Cathy, conceived me though artificial insemination.  I have never met my father, but hopefully I will be able to contact him through the hospital when I am 18, only 3 more years.  Nancy became my official other parent when she did second parent adoption when I was 11.  I love my parents very much and I am extremely proud of my wonderful family. 

What is your favorite hobby, sport or activity?
I love acting, singing, and anything to do with drama.  I do as many plays as I can and I enjoy every minute of it.  My parents have always encouraged my passion for theater.  They rarely complain when they have to drive me to play practices all the time, which is very much appreciated.

Do you participate in any COLAGE activities, events or programs?
I have been going to Family Week in Provincetown, Mass for three years now.  Going there for the first time when I was 13 was the most powerful experience of my life. I love every minute I am there.  The first time I was there, during the family parade, I was overwhelmed. As I was on a hill I looked behind me to the people below.  I couldn't believe all the people there were, they went as far as I could see. It was so beautiful, for someone who thought they were the only kid with a family of my kind, it was a realization that I belonged with all these people.

What is the hardest thing about having gay, lesbian, bisexual and/or transgender parent/s?
The hardest thing about having a special family like mine, is the constant feeling of worry about other people's knowledge and feelings.  I have to be alert to who I can share thing with, and who will accept my family.  I am very lucky to live in an accepting community with friends who love my parents too.  I found that once I made it publicly known and didn't hide my parents, everyone accepted it.  From the time I moved to my town I never hid my family, but the feeling when I travel, or meet new people is a nagging one. The sad truth is that not everyone has the knowledge to realize how normal my family is.

What's the best thing about having gay, lesbian, bisexual and/or transgender parent/s?
The best part is being part of an amazing community.  Without the doors opened for my parent by their special love I would not be as passionately active in the world.  Having lesbian moms has allowed me to grow up accepting of others and open to new ideas.