In My Shoes

A youth-produced documentary film by and about children of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender parents!

Audience Award for Best Short, San Francisco International LGBT Film Festival 2005

Synopsis:

In My ShoesIn a time when LGBT families are debated and attacked in the media, courts and Congress, from school houses to state houses across the country, five young people give you a chance to walk in their shoes – to hear their own views on marriage, making change, and what it means to be a family.

About the project:

This 31-minute documentary film was directed by Jen Gilomen and produced by the COLAGE Youth Leadership and Action Program during a 10-month activism training program in San Francisco, CA. In My Shoes is an excellent tool for raising awareness and making the case for same-sex marriage in schools, community centers, churches, legislative offices and more. This film debuted on June 16, 2005 at a world premiere event in San Francisco and at the 2005 Framline Film Festival, where it earned the Audience Award for Best Short.

    Quotes from audience members:

    • From a parent: "It's not just a youth film; it's a GOOD film."
    • From a middle school teacher: "This is the most poignant and compelling argument for gay marriage I've ever seen!"
    • From a 12-yr old son to his lesbian mom:"Did you hear what that boy [in the film] said? That's how I feel!"
    • From an 17-year-old boy who has no LGBT family or friends: "I felt like I got to be a part of their families for a little while, to see what it's like."
    • From a reform Rabbi: "Wow! That 16-yr-old girl [in the film] just went off on her county supervisor. She's articulate and she's got chutzpah!"

    Press:

    Credits:

    A collaborative project by
    COLAGE Youth Leadership & Action Program (YLAP)
    & Jennifer Gilomen

    Directed, shot, & edited by
    Jennifer Gilomen

    Assistant Directors
    COLAGE Youth Leadership & Action Program (YLAP)

    Produced by
    COLAGE Youth Leadership & Action Program (YLAP)
    & Meredith Fenton

    featured youth and families
    Sarah Gogin, Kevin Gogin and Dan Mcpherson
    Alex Morris, Paula Morris and Cory Pohley
    Jessica Gutierrez. Prado Gomez, Mariah Sparks and Anthony Gutierrez
    Xavier Soto, Kurry Foley, Stephanie Montgomery and Zindzhi
    Marina Gatto, Arzu and Ramona Gatto

    music
    by Lily Idalia

    “Confused Romance”
    written and performed by Sarah Gogin

    interviewers
    Lily Donavan-Seid
    Sarah Schanz-Bortman
    Meredith Fenton

    members of COLAGE Youth Leadership and Action Program
    Abby Lawton
    Ariel Bott
    Bevan Gerber-Siff
    Breauna Dickson
    Claire Veeninga
    Hannah Veeninga
    Jessica Gutierrez
    Lily Donavan-Seid
    Rachel Bartleman
    Sarah Schanz-Bortman
    Xavier Soto

    school scene participants
    Alexander Yip
    Jessica Gutierrez
    Jessica Van Tuyl
    Kyle Shea
    Lily Donovan-Seid
    Meredith Fenton
    Opal Felicity
    Sarah Schanz-Bortman
    Serena Felicity
    Xavier Soto

    still photography & graphics
    Jennifer Gilomen

    4track to digital music transfer
    Lauren Tabak

    funding for the COLAGE Youth Leadership and Action Program
    Bears of San Francisco
    Evelyn and Walter Haas Jr. Fund
    Horizons Foundation
    San Francisco Children and Families Commission/First Five
    San Francisco Department of Children Youth and Families
    San Francisco Foundation
    The Members and Supporters of COLAGE

    additional sponsorship of In My Shoes
    Bay Area Video Coalition

    special thanks to
    Beth Teper
    Bryan Burgess and the New College Department of Activism and Social Change
    Cory Pohley, Alex & Paula Morris
    Ember Cook
    Jesse Carr
    Jessica Dorfman
    Jessica Van Tuyl
    Kevin & Sarah Gogin & Dan McPherson
    Lavender Youth Recreation Project & Information Center (LYRIC)
    Prado Gomez, Mariah Sparks, & Jessica & Anthony Gutierrez
    Marina, Ramona & Arzu Gatto
    Stephanie & Zindzhi Montgomery, Kurry Foley, & Xavier Soto
    the go Program at the Richmond Village Beacon
    Washington High School

    additional funding for COLAGE provided by
    Arcus Fund
    Bothin Foundation
    David Bohnett Foundation
    Gill Foundation
    Open Society Institute
    R. Gwin Follis Foundation
    Reva and David Logan Foundation
    The members and supporters of COLAGE