Kentucky Republican Senate candidate Rand Paul recently said that he doesn’t want the federal government deciding that it is “appropriate” for children to have “two mommies.” Statements like these lend validation to those who seek to deny our families of the same rights, recognition, and respect that all families deserve.
As people with lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer parents, we know first-hand what it’s like to be the target of discrimination, harassment, and bullying or to be left out and ignored. When LGBTQ people and families are under political or personal attack, students with LGBTQ parents are often in the spotlight and face increased bullying at school – in class, at lunch, on the playground or field, or via the internet. It can be extraordinarily isolating and challenging to be singled out or made fun of. However, when we connect with peers who share our experience we realize our difference is our strength and are empowered to make change.
We want young people to have learning environments that are free from harassment and discrimination and, most of all, celebrate and welcome everyone.
We can make it better now, not just wait or hope things will get better, by sharing our stories, connecting with a community of our peers, and taking action to create change. Here’s how:
1. Read and share these Tips for Making Classrooms Safer with your teacher.
2. Make a video about your family and what you are doing to Make It better, then upload it to youtube. Share your link with COLAGE, Make It Better Project, and PBS POV This Is My Family.
3. Attend your local COLAGE chapter events or form a local chapter.
4. Read the new book Let’s Get This Straight: The Ultimate Handbook for People with LGBTQ Parents, chock-full of resources to help make your life and your community a better place.
Click here to make a contribution to COLAGE in celebration of our 20th anniversary as the only national youth-driven network of people with a lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer parent.